Speaker, Author, Advocate

Tammy S. Drost

Bold truth.

Real stories.

Transformative impact.

Award-winning author, Literary Titan Gold Book Award honoree, and sought-after speaker.

Speaking the Truth

That Sets People Free

Tammy S. Drost knows the power of speaking out—because it saved her life. After enduring decades of covert narcissistic abuse, she broke her silence and began sharing her story with honesty and courage.

Today, she speaks to audiences across the country, giving voice to the often-unseen realities of emotional abuse and offering a roadmap for healing and empowerment.

Her debut book, My Mother Was an Asshole: How to Recognize, Survive, and Heal from Covert Narcissistic Abuse, was honored with the Literary Titan Gold Book Award, a recognition of both its raw honesty and its impact in helping survivors reclaim their voices.

With over twenty years as an award-winning business and brand strategist, Tammy blends professional insight with personal truth—showing audiences how to reclaim their power, whether in their personal lives, their relationships, or their careers.

Keynote Topics and Signature Talks

Tammy’s talks are raw, relatable, and rooted in lived experience. As a Literary Titan Gold Book Award honoree, she equips audiences with not just awareness but actionable steps to create real change.

  • Naming the Unseen: Understanding and recognizing covert narcissistic abuse

  • Breaking the Cycle: How to heal and protect future generations

  • The Roles We Play: Golden Child, Scapegoat, Lost Child, Mascot, and Flying Monkey explained

  • Reclaiming Your Power: Strategies to rebuild confidence, boundaries, and self-worth

  • From Surviving to Thriving: Transforming adversity into purpose and leadership

Why Audiences Connect with Tammy

Tammy’s approach is deeply personal yet universally relevant. She combines the vulnerability of a survivor with the expertise of a strategist, creating an unforgettable experience for every audience.

Her recognition as a Literary Titan Gold Book Award honoree further underscores the power of her message—truth, hope, and lasting change.

Whether she’s speaking to survivors, educators, mental health professionals, or business leaders, Tammy delivers a message that inspires healing and empowers action.

Audiences leave not only informed—but also equipped to take meaningful steps in their own lives.

Book Tammy for Your Next Event

Tammy is available for keynotes, panels, workshops, podcasts and media interviews. Whether in person or virtual, she brings energy, empathy, and actionable takeaways to every stage.

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