The Book That Breaks the Silence
Raw.
Honest.
Necessary.
Now an award-winning survivor’s guide.
Bold. Unfiltering. Liberating.
A fierce guide for survivors of covert narcissists—part memoir, part survival manual, and a full reclamation of self.
Break Free from the Story They Wrote About You
If you’ve ever felt invisible, blamed, dismissed, or emotionally abandoned by someone who was supposed to love you most—you are not alone. And you are not the problem.
In My Mother Was an Asshole, Tammy S. Drost exposes the hidden wounds of covert narcissistic abuse with raw honesty and hard-won wisdom. Part memoir, part guide, this book validates your experience, names the tactics, and offers practical tools for healing.
You’ll learn how to:
Recognize the patterns and manipulation tactics
Reclaim your truth and your voice
Set boundaries that protect your peace
Grieve what was lost—while building what comes next
This isn’t just a book—it’s a lifeline. A permission slip. A reminder that you are not crazy, not broken, and never alone.
Getting Real With Yourself
Healing begins with truth. For years, I buried my story under shame and silence. This book cracks that silence wide open—giving survivors the words, the validation, and the strength to finally say:
It happened. It mattered. And I will heal.
Healing begins with truth. For years, I buried my story under shame and silence. This book cracks that silence wide open—giving survivors the words, the validation, and the strength to finally say:
It happened. It mattered. And I will heal.
Your healing starts here
The Stories We Carry
Behind every smile can be a story of survival. This book speaks the unspoken—validating what others tried to erase.
Your memories matter. Your pain is real. And your healing is possible.
Available Now in Kindle. Paperback and Hardcover Launch September 16.
Breaking Free
Abuse thrives in silence. By sharing my story, I break that silence—and invite you to do the same. Whether you’re a survivor yourself or supporting someone who is, this book equips you with clarity, language, and practical steps to move forward.
What You’ll Discover Inside
How covert narcissists manipulate with charm, control, and denial
The hidden family roles (Scapegoat, Golden Child, Lost Child, Mascot, Flying Monkey) that keep the cycle alive
The long-term impact of abuse—and how to heal without guilt or shame
Practical strategies to break free, rebuild, and create a life on your own terms
This is more than a memoir. It’s an award-winning survivor’s guide—recognized with the Literary Titan Gold Book Award—for anyone ready to rise, reclaim their voice, and rewrite their story.
WHAT PEOPLE
ARE SAYING
“Raw, plainspoken, and piercingly honest, Tammy S. Drost’s memoir is both deeply personal and universally relevant. My Mother Was an Asshole belongs on the shelf of every survivor ready to break free.”
— Literary Titan Review
“Every page felt like she had been in my house, watching my childhood unfold. This book is a mirror for those who have lived through it—and a map for those ready to heal.”
— Early Reader Review
“As a Special Education Teacher with nearly three decades of experience, I’ve seen firsthand how covert narcissistic abuse hides beneath the surface of so many students’ struggles. Tammy’s honesty and insight make this book a lifeline for survivors and those who support them.”
— Educator, Connecticut Public Schools
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